This printable script pack is for caregivers who feel drained by conversations with family, friends, or other adults about their child’s behavior, needs, or their parenting choices.

You might hear comments like:

• “They just need more discipline.”

• “If you did that when I was a kid…”

• “Are you sure it is really that serious?”

Written by Kelly Landry, PhD, BCBA-D, this resource blends the science of behavior with the real dynamics of family and social life. The language is clear, respectful, and focused on protecting your child and your own energy.

Inside this PDF, you will find:

• Scripts for responding when people comment on your child’s behavior

• Scripts for explaining your child’s needs at a high level without oversharing

• Boundaries around discipline and physical handling from other adults

• Scripts for navigating visits, gatherings, and holidays (including leaving early or saying no)

• Scripts for co-parent or partner conversations when you disagree about discipline

• Scripts for closing or following up after hard conversations

• Gentle self-talk scripts for after a rough interaction

Each section includes short teaching blurbs for caregivers, plus ready-to-use phrases you can read, copy, and adapt to your own voice.

This Toolkit is helpful for:

• Parents and caregivers who feel criticized, misunderstood, or second-guessed by others

• Caregivers who want to set clearer boundaries without constant arguments

• Professionals who want a practical handout to recommend to families navigating family dynamics

Format and access:

• Digital PDF download

• Read it on your phone, tablet, or computer

• Print and keep it with your other script packs, in a family binder, or in your notes for holidays and visits

Important note: This resource is for educational purposes and general support. It is not legal advice, therapy, or a replacement for individualized behavioral or mental health services. If your situation feels unsafe or highly conflictual, please seek support from qualified professionals who can help you plan next steps.